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When I first installed the dating app https://www.sofiadate.com/, I wasn't expecting anything special. I just wanted to chat, have some light conversation, maybe make some new friends. But fate sometimes hides behind the most ordinary swipe right.

I spotted Egor's profile by chance: a photo with a dog, a sincere smile, and a short caption – "Looking for someone to be calm and fun with." Something about that phrase caught my attention. I liked it, not really expecting it to be reciprocated. A minute later, a notification appeared – "You're a match!" We started messaging.

At first, it was the usual: about favorite movies, travel, work. But our conversation immediately became lighter, as if we'd known each other for ages. He knew how to joke without overdoing it, asked interesting questions, and listened attentively. Every evening, I caught myself anticipating his message more than any TV series.

A week later, we decided to meet up. I was nervous—my heart was pounding, my palms were sweaty. We chose a cozy café overlooking the river. When I approached, he was already waiting. The same guy from the photo, only real, alive, with a slightly shy smile. The first few minutes were a little awkward, but within ten minutes we were laughing, recalling funny stories from our text messages.

The evening flew by. We strolled along the embankment, talking about everything from childhood dreams to funny anecdotes. There was a feeling of lightness and comfort, as if the world had narrowed to just the two of us. When we said goodbye, he said, "I want to see you again." And I felt like this was just the beginning.

The next weeks flew by like a movie. Coffee in the mornings, walks, trips to the cinema, spontaneous trips out of town. For the first time in a long time, I felt like I was with someone I felt at peace with. No games, no masks, no tension. Just sincerity and warmth.

I especially remember the moment when we got caught in the rain together. We took refuge under a tree, got soaking wet, laughed until we cried, and that's when he kissed me for the first time. That kiss marked the beginning of our real story—not a virtual one, but a real, live one.

More than a year has passed since then. We still joke that we met with a dog in a photo and a couple of messages. But that's how dating became more than just an app for me, but a door to a new feeling, a story where everything is real.

Now, when my friends skeptically say, "What's with these apps? They're just random people," I smile. Because I know: sometimes, just one swipe is enough to change your life. The main thing is to be yourself, not play someone else's role, and not be afraid to take a step forward. After all, love can find you even where you least expect it.